Getting and staying organized requires focus, motivation, a plan, energy and probably a few more things, if I think about it.
It requires Action. Vision.
And sometimes a healthy meal and comfy shoes!
Getting organized can be a challenge for some people, but its really challenging if you are already feeling off, or at a disadvantage.
Good Self-Awareness and Self-Management are powerful tools in life. They help us be our best self and do our best work.
Know any toddlers? I’ve known a few. And I know some adults who may occasionally think or act like a toddler, myself included. Toddlers lose their cool sometimes. We all do. But toddlers, and the rest of us, are more likely to melt down if they are overwhelmed, hungry, tired, thirsty, bored, in need of a washroom, cold, uncomfortable or just plain sad (to name a few).
In my Organizing Coaching classes, we learn about self-management. To be fully present and focused on my client and our organizing coaching sessions, I have to make sure that I am ready before we begin. I manage my physical needs, and also mentally prepare. I can’t help others until I’ve helped me.
- your focus has dimmed;
- your motivation has lagged;
- your planning failed; or
- your energy has run out;
- it may be time to ask yourself some questions.
Is it time to eat something? Something healthy?
Is it time for a cold or hot drink?
Do I just need to step away from this project for a moment and take a walk around the block to get some clean breaths?
Am I bored? Could I use some music or a partner to help this project go more smoothly?
How do I feel in this space?
Is this space too cold? Hot? Drafty? Smelly? Too dark? Too bright?
Is this project difficult? Am I uncomfortable because I am being called upon to do difficult work?
Am I upset now because of something bad that happened earlier or yesterday or last week?
The answers to any of these questions can give us an idea of why we’re feeling out of sorts, and also the ways to rectify the situation.
A friend and client shared a powerful tool she learned in Recovery, HALT. When we feel like our resolve or focus or calm are slipping, we can ask our self if we are Hungry, Angry, Lonely or Tired? Addressing these challenges first can help us continue to make good and positive choices.
When we’re working through our organizing projects, or our work day or just life in general, we can’t always fix every discomfort we have. But increasing our self-awareness and improving our self management helps us put names to our challenges. And then we can begin to make them better.