This week, I heard from three different people, “ I am so overwhelmed, where should I begin?” We’ve all been there – we look around our home or office, and disorganization is everywhere! Perhaps we’ve been busy, and regular maintenance has been neglected. Perhaps it is a time of transition; leaving on or arriving home from vacation; career change; a family member moving home or moving away; change of seasons on the calendar; change of seasons in our life. Regardless of the reason, we wake up one day with disorganized space and a long list of projects or goals.
Then we have that deer-in-the-headlights moment, when we are frozen stiff and our brain is racing in circles, trying to figure out where and how to start, and sometimes in that moment we get so overwhelmed that we shake our head and racing brain, turn around and leave, instead of accomplishing something, anything.
So, then, where do we begin?
- Ask yourself “Which project will make the greatest impact on my daily life?” That is a great place to start! For example: If you have 4 projects (kitchen, linen closet, attic and basement), start with the kitchen then the linen closet, as those projects will help everyone in your home immediately.
- To rephrase, “Start in the area that is causing the most pain” according to Barry Izsak, CPO and author of numerous organizing books.
- The other answer to the “So, where do I begin?” is pick a starting spot – like the doorway to a room or closet, and move left to right around the space. Or right to left, or top to bottom. The starting spot itself is not magic. It is the choosing-a-starting-spot-and-working-methodically that gets things done.
- Walk around your house with a pen and clip board, and looking objectively at each room. Jot down necessary repairs, organizing projects, items that need to go away or be replaced, etc.
- Make a list of the tasks required to complete each project. For example, don’t just say “organize teenager’s closet”. A task list might include: 1. Empty all drawers, purging old or unloved clothes; 2. Install new hardware on dresser drawers; 3. Empty closet, purging old or unloved clothes; 4. Paint shelves; 5. Install new closet rod, closet light and over-door clothing rack; 6. Swap out old hangers with new hangers for hanging clothes.
- Be specific with your tasks list, and the needed supplies to pick up at the home improvement store quickly become evident. Also, it is easier to determine time allotment for the specific tasks, than it is for the whole project.
- Keep a master list for all of your projects. This will illustrate where among the projects there is common ground, like tackling two projects with one trip to Home Depot or one call to the handyman. This saves time and money and gets things done.
- Repeat after me: You do not need to complete every project right now, today. And you probably could not if you tried. Don’t you feel better already? But you can move forward on a project today, and come closer to completion, and there is satisfaction and success in that.
To Prioritize Tasks, Ask yourself these three questions (from Julie Morgenstern, Never Check Your Email in the Morning):
- Question 1: How long will the task take? We inflate our idea of how long an undesirable task may take. I dread balancing my check book, so it seems intimidating, but it usually takes all of 15 minutes a month. Conversely, you also must allow enough time for a project to get done. If you tell yourself you are going to paint the basement this summer, but don’t actually block out time in your calendar to get it done, it won’t get painted. Dedicate a block of time or regular intervals to make the project happen.
- Question 2: What is the return on investment? It may take a full 4 hours on a summer afternoon to finish a project, and you’ll wish you were somewhere fun, but the return is big when you are done. Find a balance between the potential pay off of a task and the estimated time it will take. Remember too, there are lots of things that need to happen today, but not all are major.
- Question 3: When is the deadline? Even if one project is the biggest, if the deadline isn’t for another month, do the smaller but more timely things first.
So, the next time you are faced with multiple projects and your brain is racing all around, close those eyes and take a deep breath, take a walk around your house, and then pick your spot to begin. You can do this, I know you can!
PS: I am thinking of starting a blog category entitled “If I Had a Nickel….” for every time someone asked me certain questions. I could call it Frequently Asked Organizing Questions, but I like “If I had a nickel… “ better! Which do you prefer? And what questions should I include?
I enjoyed your article about beginning. I have many tasks that need to be done, I am overwelmed and nothing gets done. I liked the idea of starting anywhere.
Thank you for your feedback! We want to be right, and understandably, but if we don’t know the right, or perfect (which is an illusion!!) place to start, we never do start. And as you say, you stay overwhelmed and get nothing done. My dad has always said “Do SOMETHING, even if it’s wrong”. So just act, and see where it takes you! And that will be a blog for another day, so stay tuned!