Learning Styles: Does This Sound Like You?
- “I’m more of a visual person.”
- “I really need to talk some things out.”
- “If I hear a song once, I remember the words.”
- “I’m more of a hands-on person.”
- “If I drive to your house once, I will always remember how to get there.”
Yes, yes and yes!
Today, let’s talk about learning styles. In coaching, we call them processing modalities. I am going to use the terms “learning styles” and “modalities” interchangeably. Our processing modalities are how OUR brain best deals with information. These learning styles are part of what makes you you, but they are not character or personality traits. They are the paths your brain uses to process and cement information and turn it into something useful for you.
The most common ones, or at least the ones we will talk about today, are
- Visual,
- Auditory,
- Verbal and
- Kinesthetic (and relatedly, Tactile).
Simply put, visual processors learn by seeing, auditory learners learn by hearing, verbal learners learn by speaking, and kinesthetic and tactile processors learn by doing.
It is helpful for us to understand that there are learning styles, that everyone is a blend of learning styles – you and me and everyone else that you interact with – and how to support our blend and the blend of the people we interact with. Knowing you are a blend, and I am a blend, and that every other person in your life is their own blend of learning styles gets us closer to awareness, acceptance and understanding.
An important thing to remember is that you have options. Options on how to support your own learning styles, and options on how to manage yourself with other people whose learning style is different than yours.
When you think of a traditional classroom, consider all the ways the teachers engage multiple learning styles. We read aloud, or listen to the teacher or other students read aloud, or we may listen to a recording. We may use our hands and use manipulatives in math, or word cards on our desk in ELA. We write our own notes, we look at things around the room or on the board, we might move around to stations or act out a scene from literature or history. There are many ways to reinforce learning styles.
We all possess all of the learning styles, but we each our own special blend of strengths. The styles or modalities show up differently in each of us at times, too. When he was little, I thought one of my sons was being difficult because we didn’t see things the same way. And the answer is, we absolutely DID NOT see the things the same way. And, that’s ok.
When we talked it through, he and I discovered that he is a visual learner and that when I told him to go in and clean his room, he saw everything in his room as one thing, one composite item. He would get overwhelmed. It was difficult for him to break down the big composite item into smaller pieces of the room, like making his bed, then putting the laundry on the floor into the hamper and hanging up his baseball cap. Once we figured out that we literally didn’t see things the same way, we figured out how I could change my language and he could change how he looked at things and then we started to communicate better.
Now that we know that there are learning styles, and that we all have our own strengths in those learning styles, let’s look at how we can use that knowledge to navigate our life.
I will use myself as a case study:
I am strong in multiple modalities, which is quite common. One of my strengths is auditory learning. I am a really good listener, which serves me well in my role as an organizational coach and musician. And, that can also be a problem because I get stressed out with prolonged or chaotic loud noise. I LOVE and I mean LOVE a good concert, either seated in plushy seats listening to a full orchestra but more so, in a bar listening to one of our favorite bands. AND, though I love the concert, I’m also somewhat relieved to walk outside in relative quiet to let my brain process all of the awesome new input I just experienced. Both can be true.
I am also a professional speaker and singer. Not surprisingly, I am a strong verbal learner. For myself, I know that I benefit from talking through challenges and ideas, and very often I gain awareness when I hear myself say something out loud. And I can get to a point some days that I am talked out. I am a verbal learner, but I dislike talking on the phone. I would rather speak in person. I am aware of my learning styles, how they show up for me, how to manage me and what tools I can use as I go through my day.
So, let’s look at the specific learning styles.
A visual processor:
- learns by seeing, or imagining something in their mind;
- recognizes patterns;
- appreciates aesthetics; and
- appreciates visual representations like graphs or pictures.
- Ways to work as a visual processor:
- use color to indicate category or priority, in our homes or professional life;
- use highlighters or fun colors of ink in writing;
- make a good list or map of things, take pictures of things to help you remember;
- be purposeful in the physical arrangement of space; and
- become aware that we are impacted by visual stimuli.
- For example, to support my visual learning, I request communications in text or email form so that I can refer back to it if I need reminders.
- Times it can get in the way:
- one visual learner may want to see everything all the time and doesn’t put things away;
- another visual learner may get distracted or overwhelmed by seeing everything, and we need to put it away behind a closed door; and
- for some visual learners, if they don’t see something, it ceases to exist for them.
An auditory learner:
- learns by listening, hearing and even reading (we often hear the words in our head);
- remembers things by how they sound, or what they were hearing when they learned it;
- may hum or talk to themselves or others; and
- may learn ideas while listening to favorite music, instrumental music, white noise or other noisescapes, or silence, depending on the person.
- Ways to work with it:
- learn new material by reading flashcards, directions, stories or assignments out loud;
- record yourself spelling words or working through new content, and then listen to the recording;
- use mantras or repeated phrases to reinforce an idea or learning; and
- listen to podcasts, or use recordings, books on tape, or having test questions read to you out loud to help you study.
- Times it can get in the way:
- auditory learners rely heavily on hearing, but can also become overwhelmed with loud, chaotic, off-key or repetitious sounds; and
- as with all learning styles, age and health can have an impact, for example, our hearing acuity changes with age, so we need to get our hearing checked regularly.
A verbal learner:
- learns by speaking and expressing themselves, by “talking it out”;
- is often strong in written communications, too, and reading and writing; and
- is often strong with auditory learning.
- Ways to work with it:
- many of the tools with an auditory learner works with a verbal learner, too, as we are doing the reading of the materials; or
- learn new material by reading flashcards, directions, stories or assignments out loud;
- For example, I often “write” my articles while I commute or travel. I open the Voice Memo app on my Iphone, and record my article, then use a transcription website to turn it into text. And at rehearsal the other night, I used the voice record to text option to send a text for follow up, and this sparked a conversation among my choir members.
- Times it can get in the way:
- as I mentioned in my case study, verbal learners can get talked out; and
- verbal learners may speak too much, disrupting themselves and others.
Kinesthetic and tactile leaners:
- learn by touching, doing, moving, building or drawing.
- Kinesthetic learners use major muscle groups and gross motor skills;
- tactile learners work more with fine motor skills and their hands;
- learn best when there is some sort of movement involved with the experience;
- learn by taking things apart and putting them back together; and
- communicate with your whole body, physically and by touch.
- Ways to work with it:
- floor plans, maps;
- factor in activity, gravitate towards sports or careers that incorporate movement;
- physically manipulate learning tools like flash cards into categories, topics, etc.;
- accept gum chewing, fidgeting, tinkering and taking physical breaks;
- do hands-on activities that involve touching, building, moving, acting or drawing; or
- offer to be the note taker in a group setting, to use the activity to keep your mind engaged.
- Times it can get in the way:
- a K or T learner may struggle if and when they are physically fatigued, injured or sore, or if space does not permit movement;
- it is difficult to sit still and you may need to take frequent breaks;
- fidgeting and movement may be mis-construed as lack of focus or impulse control in a traditional class room setting.
I could write forever about learning styles, but this is a good place to start.
Consider the different learning styles mentioned, and reflect on which one or ones resonate with you the most. Consider some of the tips suggested to help you in your day-to-day experiences. And take an active interest in the learning styles of the people around you as well, to foster communication and support!
P.S. I write this with gratitude to Denslow Brown with Coach Approach for Organizers, https://coachapproachtraining.com/, where I first learned about learning styles and processing modalities.