Fifth in the Lenten Clutter Challenge. This time of March brings us Clutter Awareness Week and Clean Out Your Closet Week, so today we look at the spirituality of clothing clutter in our closets.
I was packing for vacation last week. Packing for travel is a great opportunity to realize which items are my favorites, and conversely, which items I can probably let go of.
Why are there things in our closet that we will never wear? Clutter is anything you Don’t Need, Use or Love. Here are some reasons Why We Keep clutter, and What To Do About It.
We keep our clothing clutter because of a skewed sense of frugality: “I spent money on that item!” or “That item is worth money!”
- Yes, that item is worth money, perhaps a lot! But is it worth enough to keep it around even when it is no longer useful, becomes a nuisance, wastes our mental energy, or causes negative feelings or disruption?
- The biggest waste of your money is the storage, upkeep and maintenance of Clutter.
- Do not move clutter around your closet perpetually, just because you spent money on it once.
- Sometimes clothes are Just Wrong. Wrong fit, feel, smell or color. These characteristic will not change, Let the clutter GO!
- What is Peace of Mind worth? Put a value, a dollar amount on being organized. Eliminate clutter and stress, increase the appeal and enjoyment of your home.
We keep clutter because we are Sentimental, or would feel guilty getting rid of something.
- Perhaps our stuff represents a loved one or a certain time in our life. But what if our closet is full of such items?
- What if we get frustrated because there are too many sentimental items, and our attachment to them decreases because of sheer numbers?
- I have things that I treasure, but I have lots of people in my life that I treasure even more. We can let go of an item that has become Clutter without letting the loved one or their memories go. Honest. It’s okay.
- Treat your treasure as treasure. If you are keeping clothing items from your old life, with no intention of wearing them again, they are now keepsakes, not clothing. And they do not belong in your closet. Box up a few to keep, or frame them on the wall, then let the rest go and get on with living your life.
We Should-a, We Could-a, We Would-a…. Our clutter represents opportunities, taken or missed. So we don’t want to let go of the opportunity, the possibility the item represents.
- Someday: My hubby bought a t-shirt on vacation. It reads “Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday. See? There is no SomeDay”.
- Wouldn’t you rather live better today, this day, than save things for SomeDay that ruin today and get in the way?
- Did you stumble over things that you keep for SomeDay as you tried to get ready for work/class today? Let the clutter GO!
We keep things for Just In Case, but there are Opportunity Costs from Just in case. Any time we choose to buy or keep something, it eliminates the opportunity for something else.
- Space dedicated to clutter can not be dedicated to something else.
- Someone else is not benefiting from the stuff that is weighing us down.
- Be honest. Often a client will cling to old or grungy clothing items by calling them workout clothes or cleaning clothes, saving them for just-in-case. When there are 20 grungy t-shirts in a drawer for “working out”, you are deluding your self. Keep 5, toss the rest. Then use your now cleaned-out drawer for something else that you use every day.
- Don’t let Just In Case get in the way of Today.
So, as you read these 4 reasons, which one strikes a chord in you? Which description do you read with a wince, because you know there are things in your closet that fall into that category, and that you just need to let go of? Here is the permission you’ve waited for, I give you permission to get rid of that closet clutter. Feel Better? Great! Now go clean that closet!!
Here are some other blogs I have written about Closet Organizing:
- Learn to Love your Clothes Closet, http://colleencpo.wordpress.com/2012/01/22/learn-to-love-your-clothes-closet/
- Clear Some Closet Clutter This Week, http://colleencpo.wordpress.com/2011/09/26/clear-some-closet-clutter-this-week/